Sunday, November 30, 2014

Gigi Hadid looks flawless without makeup as she tunes out the world and heads to the gym on Monday morning (October 13) in New York City.

The day before, the 19-year-old model was spotted bundling from the chill while out shopping.

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"The thing is, when love is real, whether it's ebbing or flowing, it's always there, it never goes away," she recently tweeted.

Despite the rumors, JJJ recently confirmed that Gigi and Joe Jonas are just friends!

25+ pics inside of Gigi Hadid out and about in the Big Apple…

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Last year, Kim DePaola of the Real Housewives of New Jersey was hosting the grand opening of her designer dress shop when a brawl broke out. One of the guests got punched and then nailed with a stiletto heel, leaving a bloody gash on his forehead.

In true reality TV fashion, the cameras kept rolling, capturing all the gory details of the unfolding drama. The man who was hit with the shoe later filed a lawsuit, claiming that the brawl was staged by the show to amp up the drama.

"This was something that was done for a reality show gone awry," the man's attorney, Nicholas Sekas, told a New Jersey newspaper. "It was done for a ratings grab."

The lawsuit settled.

While reality television on-screen may often seem devoid of substance, the legal inner workings behind the scenes are anything but.

Lawyers touch nearly every aspect of reality TV production, from the mundane-vetting ideas, acquiring talent, negotiating contracts and ensuring a safe se t—to the juicy—keeping talent from leaking plots, preventing producers from rigging contests and going to bat for celebrities who relish filing lawsuits to grab headlines.

And business is booming for lawyers who specialize in this once niche area of television programming.

"If you just look through any channel guide, you'll see how many networks that air nonscripted programming there are now," says Brian Raymond, an entertainment attorney who specializes in reality television at his Los Angeles-based firm, Raymond Legal. "I certainly don't see it going away anytime soon, and for my own benefit I hope it doesn't.

Reality TV is experiencing a golden era. The format has evolved from the advent of Candid Camera in the 1940s to Unsolved Mysteries in the '80s, to MTV's Real World in the '90s and then Survivor, which first aired in 2000. Since then the genre has taken off. Today every facet of life—ordinary or ot herwise—is game for a reality series. There's Keeping Up with the Kardashians, The Bachelor, The Biggest Loser, America's Next Top Model, Survivor, Pawn Stars, Jersey Shore—the list goes on and on into the dozens, if not hundreds. (Attention, lawyers: U.S. production company GRB Entertainment is on the hunt for an "everyday attorney" to host a new legal reality show.)

The proliferation of reality TV is partly a function of taste. Americans love peering into the private lives of others and seeing a good conflict. It's also partly a function of necessity. The cost to produce an hourlong reality show is a fraction of the cost of a scripted cable show, and the ratings are often higher. "If you can make a show like Jersey Shore that gets as much ratings as scripted television that is five times more expensive to make, then you've hit the jackpot," Raymond says.

There are several genres of reality TV. Well-known docudramas, like the various Real Housewives shows or Jersey Shore, often have at least some element of staging, with writers shaping the story's overall arc. And then there are shows, like Cops, which follow a less structured format and generally have no scripting whatsoever (although there have been some famous court cases challenging the authenticity of shows purporting to be unscripted).

In those shows, "the only time the camera guys are supposed to be involved is if it's a matter of life and death," says Ethan Bordman, an entertainment attorney based in Ridgewood, New Jersey. And then there are the competition shows, including The Amazing Race, Chopped and Top Design. Generally these shows have people competing in various feats involving physical stunts, intellectual challenges and artistic pursuits.

Increasingly, there are hybrid shows that take the traditional unscripted forma t and combine it with an element of competition. Survivor is a classic example. So is the popular show Big Brother, in which "houseguests" live together and compete for a cash prize awarded to the last person who avoids "eviction."


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LEVELING THE PLAYING FIELD


While attorneys are involved in all types of shows, they are especially needed for those based on a competition. They watch over the game to ensure that the rules are fair and that the set is liability-proofed, because many competition shows have contestants performing strange, often death-defying, feats. "You've got producers there that are trying to make the best dramatic and most compelling program as possible," Raymond says. "With that, there's certainly the opportunity for their eye to fall off the actual fairness of the contest, and even I suspect there's the possibility—although I've never witnessed it—of producers faking or rigging a contest in order to have the best dramatic TV result."

Raymond recently found himself on the set of The Great Escape, a now-canceled reality show that involved teams competing to be the first to break out of unusual settings, such as the former federal prison on Alcatraz Island. Along the way, contestants had t o endure a series of challenging mental and physical obstacles. The winners took home a cash prize of $100,000. During the taping of one episode, Raymond climbed aboard an aircraft carrier and walked the entire course with a producer before the contest began. That took him to the ship's brig, from which contestants were supposed to escape to a ledge on the vessel where a giant box was to be hoisted up, and finally to the side of the ship where contestants would rappel down nearly 200 feet into a small boat.

"I visualize myself basically playing the game," Raymond says. "Looking at each location, saying, 'OK, they've got this there.' " I carry around measuring tape with me and pen and paper."
When production attorneys arrive on the set, they're often seeing for the first time how the set is designed for a particular competition. That means they may get there and realize some of the rules quickly need to be changed.


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Jerry Glover, an entertainment attorney at Leavens, Strand & Glover in Chicago, has represented reality television producers like NBC Universal and Warner Bros. Television. He once worked on the set of a show where contestants had to perform stunts inspired by scenes in famous Hollywood movies. In one competition, the stunt was based on a scene in the movie Fargo, in which Frances McDormand plays a cop catching the bad guy feeding a dead body into a wood chipper. In the competition, the producers set up a wood chipper and instructed the teams to have one player feed big hunks of red meat into the chipper while another stood on the other side holding a basket. The team that caught the most shredded meat by weight in their basket won.

When Glover arrived on the set, he noticed that the placement of the wood chipper among the trees was problematic.

"The trees would actually be catching most of the meat," he recalls.

Quickly, he and the producers had to twe ak some rules. They ended up changing the angle of the chipper "spew" to avoid the trees. Also, with safety in mind, he recommended that the contestant with the basket stand farther back than originally projected "because of the potential liabilities associated with the wood chipper itself going crazy. It was a large contraption—much larger than I expected it to be."

Fairness on these competition reality shows is taken very seriously. In fact, ensuring the integrity of a game or contest is one of the biggest jobs for reality TV attorneys. That's because there is a federal law that makes it a crime to rig a game show.


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THE QUIZ SHOW SCANDAL

The law dates to the 1950s, after it came to light that some of the era's most popular shows, including The $64,000 Question and Twenty-One, had been rigged in a bid to boost ratings. In some instances, producers prepped contestants by giving them answers and coaching them on how to act to conceal the deceit.

Eventually the truth came out, and it prompted widespread public outcry. Congress held hearings into the "quiz show scandals" and eventually passed an amendment to the 1934 Communications Act to outlaw rigging or unfairly affecting the outcome of a game or a competition show. (For more, see Precedents: "Quiz Show Hearings Begin.")

In general, the statute rests on the idea that the program being called into question is not simply a contest, but a very specific type of "bona fide contest" that hinges on "intellectual knowledge, intellectual skill or chance," according to the law, 47 USC § 509. That typically applies to traditional game shows or quiz shows, such as Jeopardy or Who Wants to Be a Millionaire.

The law has rarely been invoked since the '60s, and when it is the cases often settle out of court. That has led to uncertainty as to exactly how or whether the statute applies to reality TV.

In 2001, a contestant on Survivor invoked the quiz show statute, saying that producers intervened in the voting process, resulting in her being voted off the show instead of a competitor who she says was favored to keep ratings high. The case settled.

A more recent case involved Storage Wars, the reality show that chronicles professional buyers who bid on abandoned storage lockers at auctions and then flip their contents. Last year a star of the show, David Hester, sued A&E Television Networks and the show's producers, claiming that producers "salted" the storage lockers with valuable goods to increase the drama of the show.

"Although the series is in tended to be a truthful 'reality series' depicting people bidding at auctions of abandoned storage lockers, A&E has committed a fraud on the public and its television audience in violation of the Communications Act of 1934, which makes it illegal for broadcasters to rig a contest of intellectual skill with the intent to deceive the viewing public," according to the suit, which was recently settled.

Kimberlianne Podlas, an attorney and professor of media law and pop culture at the University of North Carolina at Greensboro, says the quiz show statute likely doesn't apply to most modern reality shows. "We're not back in that quiz show era," she says. "There are so many no-skill, nonintellectual components that a lot of the competition shows don't fit into the quiz show statutes anymore."

Either way, producers and networks aren't taking a chance. Oftentimes, to doubly ensure there is no question of fairness, producers will hire a "compliance expert " to work on the set. This person can be a lawyer, but often is not.

Alan Gerson, president and CEO of Enteractive Solutions Group, is a former practicing attorney. A division of ESG, the Sullivan Compliance Co., provides advice on major game and reality competition shows, including Wheel of Fortune and Jeopardy.


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THE ART OF FAIRNESS

Gerson's Burbank, California-based company makes sure that the shows aren't rigged, and that everyone is attempting to produce them in the most equitable fashion possible. In many cases, compliance experts actually help write the rules with the producers.

"We tell [participants] it is a crime for anybody to ask you to do anything that would be unfair or dishonest," he says. "You need to tell us in case you are approached by anyone asking you to do anything that is untoward."

The Sullivan Compliance Co. recently was on the set of the Food Network's Cupcake Wars, where contestants vie for a prize of $10,000 in a series of bake-offs. SCC addressed many aspects of the show's fairness, ensuring that the contestants were of a similar baking skill level, that the time allotted to bake and decorate the cupcakes was sufficient, and that the judges were qualified.

From the standpoint of producers, Gerson's a good guy to have on their side. "Most of th ese things don't go to court," Gerson says. "You might think that you were treated unfairly, but oftentimes we are able to convince the contestant that under the rules and after reviewing the videotape they were not in fact treated unfairly."

Attorneys are critical to the reality show business in many other ways as well. For example, a common role for production counsel is to make sure that the talent doesn't leak any information about the shows, because most shows are taped in advance. Leaking "would destroy the commercial value" of the show, Glover says. "Especially if one winner is chosen—to reveal who the winner is would destroy any reason for somebody to broadcast the show or for somebody to watch it."

There have been several high-profile lawsuits that touch on whether those who leak "spoilers" should be held legally liable. In 2011, the producers of The Bachelor sued the proprietor of a popular website called Reality Steve, whose pr incipal purpose was to leak plotlines before they aired on a variety of shows, including Jersey Shore and Survivor. The suit alleged that Reality Steve fraudulently induced contestants to breach their confidentiality contracts by offering them money to dish secrets.


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THE $100 MILLION IDEA

The rise of reality TV has also spawned an entirely new breed of television stars—including Snooki, Honey Boo Boo and the Robertson family from Duck Dynasty—who have become famous for no other reason than simply appearing on one of these shows. This new class of "talent" has shaped how networks draft their contracts.

Increasingly, networks and production companies are claiming they deserve a cut from whatever fame their cast members achieve. For example, after Bethenny Frankel appeared on The Real Housewives of New York City she went on to found the Skinnygirl Cocktails business, write several books and host her own talk show. She reportedly sold her cocktail company for more than $100 million.

"Production companies are saying if we put you on the show and you end up doing an endorsement deal or write a book, we're going to participate in your windfall of revenues," Raymond says. "If the network's going to be paying $3 million or more to be producing a show and provide a platform and essentially a commercial for you or your business, it makes sense for the networks to want to get a part of that."

Being a lawyer to the reality biz requires a special type of personality. While serving as an on-set attorney for one of these shows may seem exciting, it also involves a lot of hard work. On-set attorneys are often the new guys on the scene. That means they have to deploy a lot of diplomacy and grace so as not to ruffle feathers while doing their job.

"You have to very much read and navigate personalities and egos, and be very flexible," Raymond says.

Glover echoes that sentiment.

"You've got to get along with the crew just to get the job done," he says. "When you get on set, immediate stereotypes set in, like you're there just to say no. You've got to get around those stereotypes. When you are on set, it's up to you to make them realize that you are one of them. Because you are. Y ou're there to do the same thing they are—get a show on the air."

Lauren Etter is a freelance journalist based in Chicago.

This article originally appeared in the December 2014 issue of the ABA Journal with this headline: "The Lawyers of Reality TV."


Saturday, November 29, 2014

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Advice

John Mulaney Offers Some Relationship Advice for 'Rookie'

In the latest installment of their ongoing series "Ask a Grown Man," Rookie recently asked John Mulaney to field questions about playing hard to get, breaking up for the first time, unnecessary apologies, and acting awkward around crushes, which Mulaney claims to have tons of experience with: "Look, if he likes you and he can tell that you like him, then it's fine. If he can tell you like him and he doesn't like you back, it's not because of the way you're acting, it's just because he happens to not like you."

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theme_relationshipsDespite our reputation for being about as monogamous as rabbits, straight people are constantly seeking relationship advice from gay men.

Whether it's a woman seeking sex tips on how to please her man (because gay men are the ultimate authorities on male sexual pleasure), or a hetero bro asking why his fiancé has been so distant lately (because, as homosexual males, we're somehow more in tune with the female psyche), you'd be hard-pressed to find a gay guy who hasn't found himself playing devil's advocate for a straight couple suffering romantic challenges.

In theory, we're probably the last people these folks should be turning to for advice. After all, most of us have absolutely zero experience with opposite-sex relationships. And surely we have just as many problems in our partnerships. But let's face it: there are certain things we do differently and, well, better. (Of course, we're sure opposite-sex couples could teach us a thing or two, too.)

Maybe it has to do with John Gray's whole "men are form Mars, women are from venus" metaphor, and the fact that we come from the same "planet" as our partners. At any rate, to give our homo readers a bit of a breather from answering these kinds of questions, we've come up with some answers for our hetero pals even though they didn't exactly ask for our advice.

Here are seven tips for making your heterosexual romance work.

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1. Make your own rules

One of the benefits of being in a non-traditional partnership is that it's, well, non-traditional. Unlike straight couples, gay men aren't bogged down by societal expectations of how a relationship should be or how a couple is supposed to act. We've always done things on our own terms. Once you are an outcast, you think like an outcast.

There's nothing wrong with keeping separate bank accounts, running in different social circles, or sleeping in separate bedrooms, as long as you're both happy. Do what works for you. Don't let other people's preconceived notions or peer pressure dictate how you act in your relationship.

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2. Let it go

There's a reason why Idina Menzel's Frozen anthem "Let It Go" was such a huge hit among the gays last year. The song basically captured our entire life's philosophy in just 3 minutes and 44 seconds.

So you caught your boyfriend sneaking a peek at another woman's donque at the beach. Let it go.

So your girlfriend just received a text message from her ex who lives in another state. Let it go.

Nine times out of ten these are innocuous offenses not worthy of getting upset over, or even commenting to your partner about. Not to mention, nobody wants a significant other who's constantly chastising them every time they act human.

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3. A little harmless flirting never hurt anyone

As gay men, we're not above asking our boyfriend to bat his eyelashes at the male flight attendant if it means complimentary in-flight cocktails for the next six hours. Flirting can be an excellent way of getting things: discounts, free upgrades, special treatments, you name it.

Can your girlfriend's cleavage get you an upgrade on your rental car? Great! Can your boyfriend's sparkling blue eyes and dashing smile charm the hostess into seating you early? Awesome! Allowing your partner permission to work his or her magic on others can actually benefit you, too. And it will keep him or her happy short of having to sleep with the subject of the flirting. So stop acting all jealous and insecure and enjoy the perks of being in a relationship with someone other people find desirable. It won't last forever, honey.

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4. Rethink monogamy

Contrary to what some idealogues say, human beings are not biologically programmed to be monogamous. Gay men understand this better than anyone. That's why many of us–many, not all–have open relationships. We've learned how to separate sex from love, and how to communicate our needs with our partners in ways that work for everyone.

Just because a couple is in an open relationship doesn't mean they are any less committed to one another, or that their relationship is somehow fractured or destined for failure. In fact, it's just the opposite. Being in an open relationship requires an even deeper level of trust and understanding in one's partner.

You may decide that keeping the bedroom door in your relationship slightly ajar isn't for you, and that's perfectly fine. But it's something to at least consider now that we're well into the 21st century.

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5. Honestly really is the best policy

Most everyone understands that relationships involve making sacrifices. Sometimes one must give up certain behaviors for the sake of their significant other.

Let's say your girlfriend tells you she doesn't want you e-mailing your ex-fiancé anymore, even though the two of you are just friends and the e-mails are 100 percent innocent. You now have a choice to make: Either do as she asks or explain why you can't. Whatever you do, don't lie and tell her you'll cut off communication only to continue maintaing a secret e-mail relationship on the side. Because one day, no matter how careful you are, you're going to leave your computer open and she's going to see the e-mails and be upset. It could be years from now, but it will happen. And she might dump you as a result. And, quite frankly, she'd be justified in doing so. After all, you lied. For years. And that isn't cool.

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6. Don't fear being single

Why is it when the economy gets better, fewer people cohabitate? It's because, generally speaking, people, when free of economic pressure, prefer to live alone. Nowadays there's so much less stigma attached to being single. So stop buying into the old Hollywood lie that you're going to end up old and lonely if you don't settle down with someone by the time you're 35. There are too many happy older single people and too many older, isolated, unhappy couples to believe that fiction any more.

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7. You don't have to get married. Ever

Too many people view marriage as the ultimate end goal in a relationship. Why bother being together, they think, if not to one day wed?

Sure, marriage has its perks. If your spouse murders someone, for instance, you can't be forced to testify against him or her in court. And if they go to prison, you're entitled to visitation rights. Then, of course, there's the excuse to throw a big party and register for expensive gifts at your favorite department store. These are all good things. But they're everyone's cup of tea.

It wasn't that long ago that same-sex couples were forbidden from getting married in the United States. Yet we still managed to maintain long, happy, and successful partnerships. And many of us are now choosing to stay unmarried despite more and more states adopting marriage equality. It kind of goes back to our first point about making your own rules.

Every relationship is different, so do what feels most natural to you and yours. That's the key to living happily ever after.

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Graham Gremore is a columnist and contributor for Queerty and Life of the Law. Follow him on Facebook and Twitter.

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