Love From The Brain

Random Relationship Advice

By yusef williams, Saturday at 1:30 pm

Tell someone you love them every day. Every human is unique. Treat each accordingly. Do not associate with people whose life condition is lower than yours. All humans are sufferers of either too much love or too little love. Remove all doubts about your abilities. Both respect and disrespect are earned.

The journey is far more important than the destination. When you take a shortcut, you run the risk of bypassing an important part of the journey. Master the art of patience. Only you can know you. No one else has access to all your thoughts. Others will only know what you show. Hide your true self behind silence, a smile and decent manners. Pepper your speech with "please," "thank you," "ma'am" and "sir." Avoid unhappy people. Learn to say no to the ones you love.

Grab everything with a willingness to let it go. Only the weather just happens. All human actions are the result of choice. It is possible to love every individual human on the planet in a unique way. It takes the same amount of time to find out that you don't like someone as it does to find out that you do. To be kind to those you dislike is not phony. It's humane. Find joy in the mundane and the simple. Disappointment is the result of unmet expectations. Minimize expectations and you minimize disappointment.

The best way to avoid breaking promises is to avoid making them. The price of personal happiness is often pain to those closest to you. When making a decision about your personal happiness rarely factor in what others may think of you. Peace is found in the absence of noise.

Occasionally turn the television off and leave it off. The cure for boredom is reading. Avoid getting addicted to pleasures. Checked behavior will protect unchecked emotions. Keep having a secret a secret. Don't expect anyone to give you what they don't have to give. Happiness begins with a love for life itself. Abandon the culture of poverty. Stop living the bootleg life.

Do not fear silence. Seek to understand not just to know. Know when not to know. Ignore all knowledge that does not help you live a helpful life. Everyone deserves and opportunity to fail. If you will judged humans, do so based on their actions not their beliefs. Make every life decision from a place of love. Face the consequences of your actions with the same vigor that you possessed when you committed the action. Seek to see the beauty in everything. Embrace change.

Think. Those that don't think deserve what not thinking earns them. Avoid forcing humans to lie to you. Let your opinions for the masses be the same as your opinions for your house. Value time. It's the most important commodity in life.

Allow yourself to see others for who they are not who you want them to be. Try not to let fear suppress your ability or willingness to love. Recognize that not all humans think the way you do. Discard all beliefs and fears that were given to you without your permission. Choose happy.

Remember. No always. No never.

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